Monthly Archives: July 2012

Jared and Heather’s Wedding Shower


Jared and Heather are one of our more recent couples. They married July 1st at the Jazz Hall of Fame in Tulsa, OK. We don’t yet have their pictures, but we’re told we may sooner than later! Heather is a photographer who has her own studio, and Jared owns his own construction company. They’re a busy couple that didn’t have much time for planning, but wanted everything to be just right.ย  Their shower was held at the University Club Tower in downtown Tulsa on a warm summer day. The original plan was to have the shower in the evening on the fantastic patio and yard of the Tower, but it was so incredibly windy our plans changed 2 hours before to have it inside!

My inspiration for this shower was the that the groom was my brother. ๐Ÿ˜‰ So basically, I did what I wanted cause he had to let me! Haha okay no so much… But it was much more personal than most events I do. The budget was $500.

I chose hydrangeas for the centerpieces because the home we grew up in had large, beautiful hydrangeas all along the front of the house (see above! Our childhood home, now a bed and breakfast I hear is lovely in Southeastern Oklahoma)ย  Seeing them always made us think of home, so I knew it was a must, despite how frail of flowers they are (I bought extras, and the flowers held up beautifully, I even took some home to keep on my desk for another week!)

He loved the hydrangeas so much he wore one around for a while! This is Jared with his bride-to-be, Heather.

I went with green silk cloths to keep it a bit dressier, as the University Club Tower is a nicer place.

But I had to have some butterflies there! My brother and I were quite the bug collectors, butterflies and fireflies were our favorites, so that was a must.

The butterflies on the windows, hand cut by my Mother and I.

I also knew immediately where my cake would be from, Ann’s Bakery! You cannot have an event within two hours of Ann’s and not have them.ย  They’re known for their longstanding quality and customer service. You don’t know who they are? Check out their website.ย

They have the best flavored wedding cakes you’ll ever eat (orange pineapple, anyone?), and they are by far the most impressive on design as they pretty much refuse to use fondant, so the cakes stay delicious. What does that mean? Butter cream art, all by hand! No laser cutting fondant machines for these pros. So how could I not get the most lovingly created cake from thisoutstanding bakery for my brother and his new wife? Especially because they have amazing gluten free cake, so that was a must for my gluten intolerant soon to be sister in-law.

The gluten free cake and the cake balls. Ignore the terrible plastic cloth. Ugh! That was because of a horrible mishap with the intended linen.

For the favors, we did tubes with small thank you cards, and filled them with jelly beans and skittles, their favorite candies.

The favors sat in a basket by the door for guests to grab on their way out.

They got a lot of great gifts and were excited to see all the family there.

It turned out to be a great shower, and everyone was willing to lend a helping hand.

So what did you think fo this glimpse into my personal life? What did you like about the shower?

See you next time!



Ashley’s Personal Shower


Ashley was a May bride. This is her personal (or lingerie) shower. It was actually held in The Loft, so you get to see our work space! We did have the lighting low, so the pictures aren’t of the absolute best quality. I’ll show you what my ideas and inspiration was, what the final products were, and what she thought of her shower. My budget was $800. I came in well under!

My inspiration:

Ashley is a modern girl who likes clean and contemporary style in her everyday life with a touch of nature and is definitely girly underneath that. Her favorite color is yellow, but she didn’t want to use it in the wedding since she felt it would wash her out in all her pictures. Hm… Well that decided I would be using yellow for her! I like to try to find a cake that embodies the style I’m working towards when I start a design from scratch, so that’s why 2 of 3 of my pictures here are a cake. ๐Ÿ˜‰

I loved the rosette details on this cake I had seen at a Bridal Show when I first started working on the shower. I decided I wanted to use gray/silver from this cake.

This is when I decided how I would pull together the entire shower. This cake is the theme I wanted. I was planning on using this specific design for the cake, but we only needed two tier, and I just didn’t like it like that, so I did my own design

I really wanted to use daffodils. They just didn’t quite go, so I ultimately went with carnations. I loved the clean white of the tables in this photo, as well. So I decided I would use white overlays and chairs to keep it crisp and contemporary.

My ideas:

Her favorite flower is a daffodil, and I really wanted to use them for centerpieces. I looked around and discussed it with the florist I used, but we ultimately decided carnations would be our best bet for the style. I had been wanting to make a chandelier for a while, so I jumped on it and went and got a lot of paper doilies to make a Martha Stewart style one. Well, my doilies didn’t want to be a chandelier. So I snatched some tissue paper from Angela (she was hand making some invitations, for a birthday party, that she used tissue paper for that week) and I did a test run. Voila! Works perfectly. So I go get my paper in the colors I wanted, some ribbon, and a board to cut into a frame.

My chandelier:

This took me awhile to make. I put it off until the week before, which isn’t like me. It had been so busy, I was making 100 other things for events in the month leading up to it. Well, that didn’t turn out too well. I ended up having an accident and breaking my index finger and part of my hand a week and a half before the shower. It was pretty bad and surgery was being discussed seriously for a while, so I was in and out of specialist appointments. On top of that, Angela was packed with her own events to finish up this shower for me, so I just spent some really late nights all the way up to the night before making everything painstakingly slow. So this shower was not the end result I wanted, as I didn’t get to do a few of the projects I really wanted to. But! I did finish that chandelier…

Ashley stopped by the night before to check everything out. This is her checking out the chandelier

The chandelier hanging in the entryway, completed.

It took a while to choose the layout for the room, where my touches of yellow would be, and how exactly I would use my color scheme. For the layout, I scattered sitting height cocktail tables around the room, with conference tables for serving to save space. I used standing height cocktail tables for the entryway, and the cake table.

My touches of yellow, I used yellow carnations in the centerpieces, yellow on the top layer of my chandelier, and yellow tulle poms hanging from the ceiling mixed with my white paper lanterns.

For the overall color scheme, I wanted it to feel airy despite the charcoal gray, so I used that as my base cloth, with a white overlay and pewter napkins.ย  The centerpieces were mercury glass with fresh carnations and greens. I hung white paper lanterns from the ceiling with yellow tulle poms, and had a few LED trees for ambiance. I lit the gift table from underneath, as well as the recipe basket with the wine glasses you see above. I then strung small lit lanterns and groupings of yellow tulle on top of my white serving table linens. Those elements were all difficult to see in the pictures as it was low lighting in the there to make those things be the focal points, but I’ve got some pictures below anyways.

The cake:

I’m sure you’re curious to see what I came up with! I decided on doing some sparkly gray fondant as the base, and some delicious butter cream light yellow rosettes as the top layer, which really looked cute on the girly lace overlay with the charcoal peeking through on the cake table.

I loved the colors, so I was willing to overlook the poor fondant job, that I was sure only my trained eye would see.

We had a bit of a disaster with it, though.

Little did I know that was just a taste of the disaster to ensue!

But I happen to have a good friend who is a baker who rushed to the rescue with her repair kit and fixed it on site when the baker, who had a bad recipe and didn’t ice the design tight enough, refused to come fix it. Thanks again, girl!

Tah Dah! She really did some fancy work with only some paper towels and 3 tips on her icing bag. She even mixed that color by my description of it over the phone when she was making it at home for me! Talk about talent, it was an exact match.

Enough talking! Now the final pictures, and some shots of the party being enjoyed.

The centerpieces assembled and ready to be placed. I was happy with how they turned out! Organically arranged, and a bit frilly looking but balanced by the mercury and dark greenery

I was pretty excited to use this thing, we had just gotten them about 2 weeks before the shower.

Laying out the tulle and string lanterns before setting up the food

Almost there!

One of the standing height cocktail table centerpieces

The food out and being arranged

Looking good!

Ashley holding up a pearl necklace

And a cute nightie ๐Ÿ˜‰

All in all, I was pretty happy with the turn out of the shower. So tell me about it! What do you think? What did you like? What did you dislike?

If we get some good feedback from our readers, this will be a regular post. So be vocal! Share with us!


Okay so I’m a Big Fat Liar


So…. I didn’t exactly keep my word on keeping up with the blog since my last post in March.


The summer is our busiest season at The Loft, and we have been channeling all our creativity intoย  our brides and our ideas for them. Which now that I think about it, we should just be sharing all of that on here! So I’m going to start a new category on our blog here, just for our event ideas, and the end result of that event. I’m gathering info for it today. ๐Ÿ™‚ Yay!

If you are one of our clients and are willing to send us some great shots of our work and you and your family having a blast at your event, don’t hesitate to send them our way! We would love so much to have them.